There is the Mass of the Ages which is the unchanging true Catholic faith. Then there is the horribly irreverent protestant "service" full of liturgical abuses.
There are a small number of shepherds who teach and maintain the true Catholic faith. Then there are the many hirelings with no passion for speaking the true Gospel but would rather talk about sports, crack jokes, and show videos during homilies. The difference is quite clear between the shepherds and the hired help.
Quite simply, don't go to the "NoNo" Ordo which is not Catholic. Do the research. Attend the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass where a holy Priest teaches the true faith. If you have to drive to attend, do it. If you have to move to another state so you can attend, do it.